Southern Oregon Living: The Help - A Labor of Love

The Help - A Labor of Love

The Help - A Labor of LoveThe Help - A Labor of Love.  Few movies move me to tears, but The Help did just that and then some.  The story takes place in Jackson, Mississippi where a white woman, raised by black maids, decides to write about her experience.  In the 1960's, it was tabu for whites to associate with blacks.  And, in many jurisdictions, the law forbade the two from interacting on a personal level.  Kathryn Stockett took a huge risk when she decided to collaborate with several black maids and write about their story.

The Help was a Labor of Love in the making... not only for it's prolific author, Kathryn Stockett, but also for her best friend, Tate Taylor, a childhood buddy and amateur Director with whom she entrusted the rights to direct the film.  Both were rejected and discouraged from writing the book and making the movie, but something more powerful than the human spirit propelled these two to expose the naked truth about discrimination.  And the rest of the naysayers are eating 'Minnie Pie' today (you'll have to see the movie to get a huge laugh from this line).

Speaking of lines... one of the best and most powerful line in this movie is when Viola Davis tells a young white girl... 'You is Kind, You is Smart, You is Important.'  Oh My God... we could all have benefited from hearing these most powerful words as children.  It is said that change begins with a whisper... Pssst, come closer, I want to tell you something.  A little closer... closer... okay, that's close enough... now listen carefully... don't walk to this movie... run!  And you best be bringing the tissues with you, because the tears are going to flow.  It is powerful, it is poignant, it is purposeful... and it is most befitting, on this lovely Labor Day, to encourage you to see this film!

The Help - A Labor of Love

22 commentsMel Peterson - The Naked Blogger • September 05 2011 12:30PM

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Mel - Just about ready to head to the river for some sunshine and stick throwing (For the dog, not me, I've had my exercise) - but, just wanted to let you know, "You is kind, You is Smart, and You is Important."

Posted by Debb Janes, EcoBroker Camas, Washington EcoBroker (The Carl Group, LLC) 9 months ago

I know I'll make it to the cinema to see this but I'll see it at home sometime soon I'm sure.  I'm debating reading the book first.    Great review!

Posted by Susan Emo in Gananoque/Kingston/Brockville ( RE/MAX Riverview Realty Ltd - Brokerage 1000 Islands Canada) 9 months ago

PS   I LOVE LOVE LOVE Debb's comment!

Posted by Susan Emo in Gananoque/Kingston/Brockville ( RE/MAX Riverview Realty Ltd - Brokerage 1000 Islands Canada) 9 months ago

I luv ya Debb!  Have a great day with Mac... see ya tomorrow, my friend!

ME TOO Susan!  The book is next on my list ;-)

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

Mel, I read the book and it made me laugh, cry and celebrate along with the characters regarding the 'pie'. I heard the movie follows the book pretty closely, looking forward to seeing it.

Posted by Wanda Kubat-Nerdin, REALTOR® St. George, Utah (Prado & Kramer Real Estate, St. George, UT 435.632.9374) 9 months ago

You make me wish I lived where there are movie theaters. Maybe I can request the book from our local library.

Meanwhile, I have a friend who grew up in the deep South, and she has told me about being raised by her black nanny. She loved her and considered her more of a mother than her real mother - because it was her nanny that took her everywhere, listened to her, and all the rest.

Posted by Marte Cliff (Marte Cliff Copywriting) 9 months ago

Wanda ~ I laughed so hard and so loud... thank God the people around me were laughing too!

Oh Marte ~ This is the film to see... and it absolutely mirrors what your friend told you about growing up in the South.  Very powerful stuff!

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

This movie is on my list to see I think it will inspire a lot of individuals. Happy Labor Day.

Posted by Pat Champion (Coldwell Banker Camelot Realty) 9 months ago

Mel-I hadn't heard about this movie but with this review I will most definitely have to. I ditto Debb's last line     ("You is kind, You is Smart, and You is Important.")  in SPADES my friend.  Hope your Labor Day is relaxing and enjoyable

 

Posted by Sharon Lee (Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance) 9 months ago

Pat ~ You'll be glad you did... it's gripping, true and extremely entertaining!

Sharon ~ When you see the movie, you will so appreciate that line even more.  Thank-you kindly on Debb's ditto!

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

Dang it, it's my Donald's turn to pick.  How the heck am I gonna get him to pick this movie?  And shooting involved?

Posted by Tammy Lankford/Broker Lane Realty Lake Sinclair-Central GA 9 months ago

I will definitely go see it.  Being raised in the deep South from a long line of Southerners, I am very familiar with the mentality.  Thanks so much for your endorsement.  Every time I see the previews I think it looks like such a neat movie.  (PS ~ and I am so excited for your that you girls will get to be together tomorrow!)

Posted by Mimi Foster - Colorado Springs Realtor Managing Broker (EPIC Real Estate Group Colorado Springs Real Estate) 9 months ago

Mel ~ This book is one of the most poignant books of the century!!  I have not had the chance to see the movie but do plan on it!!

Posted by Frank & Karen Baker ® Sunset Beach N/C Brunswick County N/C & Horry County S/C (910.612.1931 www.sunsetbeachandbeyond.com) 9 months ago

Tammy ~ Just tell Donald 'He is kind, He is Smart, and He is Important!'

Being from the South, you'll especially enjoy this film Mimi.

I'm all over the book now Karen... can't wait!

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

Mel....I saw this last weekend & just loved it!

Posted by Christine Smith, Canton MA Buyer Broker & Attorney, 781.799.8313 (Buyers Brokers Only LLC - www.BuyersBrokersOnly.com) 9 months ago

Mel, from the very first time I heard about the movie, I couldn't wait for it to come out! Powerful, poignant and purposeful movies are the kind I prefer - I want to laugh and I want to cry when I get to go to the movies, which is not that often, but I don't want to be doing it because a movie is so bad. I can't wait! It is very tempting to just go and get the book now but in my opinion it is always best to see the movie first.

Posted by Andrea Bedard, M.A. ~ Realtor® & Mil Spouse ~ Silver Spring, MD and beyond (Thompson Company Realtors) 9 months ago

Mel, this is incredibly compelling!    After a nice hot shower, I'm literally out the door for the 7:10 showing.   Boy, oh boy, am I psyched.  Brian

Posted by Bristar Realty, Realtor/Attorney, OC Home Sales Pro 9 months ago

Wasn't it fabulous Christine?  How about that pie?!

Me too Andrea!  I hear the movie is very true to the book =)

Oh Bri... you're in for a treat!  Don't forget the tissues, while I eat my pie ;)

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

Mel, we read this in our book group--absolutely one of our ALL TIME FAVORITES. Aren't there toilets, TOO that play a part in this??  We read so many, I may be mixing it up....anyway, I loved all of these characters and want to buy the film and watch it at home (so I can keep my puffy eyes to myself)!

Posted by Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Realtor® (Vernonia Realty) 9 months ago

Mel, this movie was just wonderful!  I laughed, and cried and cannot believe that condition like that existed -- and probably still do in some places.  Loved THE PIE!

Posted by Elise Groves, Mortgage Broker,Banker FHA, VA, Conv, Jumbo - Purchase or Refi (First Priority Financial Santa Rosa CA Mortgage Lender) 9 months ago

The Help is really doing well at the box office. I don't go to theater movies anymore because there are so many movies via Netflix that I haven't seen, not to mention that the snacks are overpriced and the seats are uncomfortable.

Posted by EC, JF, Double R and Zoey the Cool Cat (Russel Ray Photos) 9 months ago

I'm all about the book now Gayle... and yes, there is a big deal about toilets... but nothing compares to the scene with Minnie's Pie!  It was a hoot to meet you today... you girls were exactly as I imagined you... cute as ever!

I laughed and cried too Elise... that's what makes a film great in my book!

Well Eric, you should rent it when it comes out... and I know what you mean about the price of snacks... but nothing beats theatre popcorn... it's just so yummy!

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) 9 months ago

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